a character: does something not involving him

him: oh so are we doing anything or?

the gm: lets something happen to any other character

him: stops paying attention and gets mad when he does something fucked up

he like attacked this spirit cause the last thing he remembers was the mage attacking her and somehow thought her standing up to back AWAY and saying LOUDLY “why are you attacking me” was threatening he also missed my cleric fucking decking said mage in the face for doing that and was mad at ME for not mindlessly attacking an undead cause they’re all evil so i should be 

like…. fuck core rules this in your gf’s custom world and also benevolent spirits exist and it’s boring to make them all evil don’t get mad at me because you can’t pay attention when the spotlight isn’t on you which it is a LOT anyway